Zulu, don't get discouraged. We HD men do not need you ladies to be "on" all the time. You seem to have made many adjustments that many of us would be thrilled with. Just be willing to be there emotionally as well as physically often enough and most will notice. (notice not always. You seem to have a lot not your plate). Chances are your H is one of these.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
