Good for you! Make H work. He's taken you for granted for too long!
It got so if H didn't make plans with me at least a week in advance, I was busy. I made sure of this. I never cancelled any plans, and I made him work. Men only value what they have to work for...and I'm not so sure that's not true for women as well.
Anyway, after a few times of hearing, "Sorry, but I've already got plans," H got his booboo together and scheduled in advance. Even now he does that because I'm staying pretty busy. We might not have solid plans these days, but he's claiming a night. I would require your H to have specific plans at this point though....
You're doing great. When is the Sonoma gathering again? I'm thinking I might find some extra cash to come up....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
