So, which is it now? Are you fully, legally divorced now? or still "separated"?
I don't give a flying fig about the legal stuff and I was never religiously married. I should be divorced by now but I'm not due to financial entanglements my 2bx abandoned. I considered myself morally divorced the day my 2bx informed me that he was not willing to meet any reasonable marital commitments and I asked him to leave. I haven't had sex with him since then (although he tried several times) and I have zero intention to have sex with him in the future.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
