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she now claims she did mention to me about divorce prior to the bomb. WTF?!!! Cuckoo! Insane!


I hear this too! I don't know where I was when my H approached me that our marriage was in trouble prior to the bomb, but apparently he did it all the time? WTF?

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She says she can't trust me!


I can 'one up' you on this one. Not only can H *not* trust me, he thinks I am cheating on him. CUCKOO for sure!

My H flat out refuses to talk about how OW could possibly be part of our problem. When we R talk, we conveniently only have enough time to go over all MY issues, somehow never seem to talk about what he has done to tear us apart.

I feel for you. Dark and cordial. I totally agree. HUGS!