Dropping the line vs. differentiation

[MJontheMend]

I appreciate your POV. Unfortunately, most scientific evidence shows that men do not choose women based on compatibility of interests. However, that does not mean that I should not consider such an important aspect of a successful relationship. All I am saying is that if I want a man who loves the great outdoors, it is a scientific fact that I am more likely to get his interest if I show up for the day hike in an outfit that emphasizes my waist to hip ratio and it is a psychological fact that he will find me more attractive if I "let" him do the hike equivalent of "holding the door open" for me. Just like he is more likely to get my interest if he shows some biceps and does something manly. Actually, I probably need to start hanging out in weight rooms because I'm pretty much sexually addicted to men who can pick up 160 lbs. now. Plus I really did like the fact that GP was into working out because it was encouraging to me. Plus there has to be some link between working out and being more sexually fit (unless you take steroids, of course). So probably what I should do is hang out at a gym and read on the machines and then if somebody who looks like he could lift 160 lbs. makes an intelligent comment to me about my book it will be golden. I actually think that it will be an overall good move for me to start dating men who are really muscular because then they can have really sweet personalities and still seem "top" like to me via the TeddyBearInALeatherJacket effect.