Oops. posting overlap. my previous post, is missing the quote it is replying to: it was a reply to the earlier post.
For clarity, it was in response to the following:

Quote:
First, decide who you are. Then be that and you'll find the sort of man that appeals to.


Side comment/quote: MJ, you wrote:

Quote:
... that's how those who know me best are viewing my post-separation identity ...

[...]if I did that sort of thing when I was married [....]


So, which is it now?
Are you fully, legally divorced now?
or still "separated"?

Last edited by Dom R; 11/20/07 02:33 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle