GD, Some random thoughts: 1. Could she be looking for a way to extend the D out of fear of the future? In other words, she still has GD "there" until the D is final? Afterwards, she is on her own...Oh yeah, she still has BF to support her, right?!
2. You are in control right now. You can do what you want. As you know, I always suggest the Path with Heart. In this case, it could be either way...give her extra support with the idea that it will help the kids, OR...let the L handle it and give her no more than the law requires in the hope that it will force her to straighten up and start making good decisions. Your call.
3. Sorry you are so done, but it is the most common outcome as far as I can tell. I've been there since July, but still somehow managing to keep the door open the tiniest crack...for now.
Don't sweat the small stuff and Keep Dancin'!
SD
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