I am so sorry for this pain. I can't imagine it, although I have tried.
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Ummm - I am your wife, not your business partner.
My C has said that for women, divorce is an untying of knots, for men, it is a business deal. ...
I feel like I have nothing to pass along except thoughts and prayers. Know you are strong even as you feel weak - and that whatever your response might be, it is valid and should be allowed to be shown. There is a time and place to act "as if" if you ask me. I would listen, though, to those on this forum who have journeyed the route you are taking - like Forlorn; they are wise and insightful.
As for dbing - I have come to think that it is the support of people on this forum that is its greatest strength.