W8ing --

I am so sorry for this pain. I can't imagine it, although I have tried.

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Ummm - I am your wife, not your business partner.


My C has said that for women, divorce is an untying of knots, for men, it is a business deal. ...

I feel like I have nothing to pass along except thoughts and prayers. Know you are strong even as you feel weak - and that whatever your response might be, it is valid and should be allowed to be shown. There is a time and place to act "as if" if you ask me.
I would listen, though, to those on this forum who have journeyed the route you are taking - like Forlorn; they are wise and insightful.

As for dbing - I have come to think that it is the support of people on this forum that is its greatest strength.

<<<hugs>>>
Anned


Me: 45
WAH: 46
Married: 23 yrs; together: 28 yrs (if this year's included)
S1: 17
S2: 13
Bomb w/ H walking out: 1/10/07