Thanks tal!! Wish it were that easy!!

I think I can find a happy middle. I just need to keep the boundaries clearly defined.

If we start getting into an area where I'm not comfortable, I just need to lay it out there. It's all about self preservation now.

I'm thinking I'm taking the holiday off from working out.. I've been stressed and really tired lately. Start back up hard core monday.. including several days of running. It's amazing how quickly the belly rounds out without cardio!!

When I say friendly, I mean just pleasant.. I don't necessarily want to get into daily "How was your day..." married friendly, I just want to deal with her as I need in a non-irritated manner. That's all on me... I need to not let the little things she says and does bother me. I need to find a way to tactfully and diplomatically wade through issues with the D's.

2008 is going to be one hell of a year.. here's to a good one!!