Upside - thanks for checking on me....your kind offer to talk set off a fresh batch of tears. Everyone here is always so nice....
I am really a mess tonight.
I hadn't gotten to the point yet of thinking that my H has been having a way with really "celebrating" holidays and special occassions. Let's see, an OW confession on our anniversary and settlement papers at Thanksgiving. Can't wait to see what Christmas will bring.
I think, in addition to it being a insulting settlement offer, it really drove home that I am getting a divorce.