brit, how did improve your relationship? i know when my wife is out of town on business things seem a lot calmer.i think she wants to move out because she is feeling guilty. i have been db'ing pretty well for 3weeks, no r talk until she brought it up last thursday. she said she wanted to move to her friends house, she did not want to give me false hope. i never said anything to that. she has been very uncomfortable for the last two weeks. i would welcome some positive results. have a great thanksgiving.
Check my thread - She moved out and started anti-depressants the same day, so it's pretty hard to tell what did what. I know that having moved out she misses me, she misses time with D, she doesn't do much on her own anymore and she goes out of her way for us to spend time together.
My wife has told me on a few occasions that she isn't sure if she made the right decision to move out (she said it a few times before moving, but she has mentioned it since she left), and that she feels uncomfortable in her new house. She pretty much doesn't eat, has irregular sleep patterns (even without D) and really doesn't seem like herself when she's on her own. The ironic thing is that whenever we're together, she pretty much behaves like her old self - Happy, laughing, playing with D and having fun with me. We exchange hugs, kisses and ILY's all the time now - We don't talk R anymore, but it's more like we're 'dating' or something now. She has told me she enjoys the time she has to herself (that is, time on her own without me and D), but that she wants me to live closer to her...
