She fussed, tossed, turned....etc. I finally just took care of her. H was in the living room watching movies the whole time.
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kind of pushed for me either to leave on Wed. or come back on Mon.
TICKS ME OFF!!
Why would he push you to be gone LONGER!??? That makes me so mad. And I have been there done there that being sick and ending up with the kids anyway. One time I left and napped at my mom's.
I think it might be time for a talk. Maybe a bit of a 'putting my foot down' talk? Saying that talking with OW is inappropriate, and he should know this since he hides it from you. One of the many books I read talked about 'family friends', someone who is friends with both spouses. The book said the friend is only a 'friend' if they are a 'friend of the marriage', meaning supportive of your marriage, friends to both of you. This woman isn't a friend of your marriage.
