It's is not as easy as you think. The W has to be in the proper state of mind also. I too have felt as you but.......when I started doing some of the things I did she would say "don't be stupid" Or "you are being an idiot". Today was a good day. We really need to start reading that book and comparing notes. I still need to check out that web site you mentioned. Last night before bed I called down the hall from my room. (Used to be OUR bed room) for my son because he was supposed to take a shower. (Only one is in our room). W was on the phone talking to her mother. And yelled back "what did you want?” I said I was calling son to take his shower. She then called son and said I wanted him. When she went back to talking to her mom she said “I forgot what we were talking about with all this crap going on here.” Hearing this slapped me into a bad mood. Luckily I was going to bed. So today at work W calls me to tell me I got a call from the P.D reserves office. Then she asked “so how is your day going?” This put me in a good mood. Usually 1. She would not call and 2. When I call home from work is sounds annoyed and keeps it to on word answers. She called and asked how was I doing…………. My point is WE control our moods. I keep hearing this and reading about it but it is so true. I am getting better at it but have a ways to go. Sorry for taking up your thread but I am trying to show ya what I am going through and I have been at it for 7 months. Let me know when ya get the book
Oh yea did some therapy shopping for ME. I bought a 19” LCD T.V for my room (talked the sales man down $50.00) and a whole new off road back bumper for MY jeep. Cool It holds two spare gas tanks so when I travel to see yoyo I won’t need to stop for gas as much.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
