We are supposed to be going out of town to her parents house for Thanksgiving. I have told her I am unsure if I want to do this or not. I actually am. But, I know I should. It's the best opportunity to DB especially while in her house. I just wanted her to know that I have the ability to choose to do something else. Her answer to me was that I should come.
I don't see why you shouldn't go - It'll be confusing for the kids if you don't... Sure you can do something else, but this is a family event and it'll probably appear really bad if it looks like you bailed out on it.
