H: I've told you I'm just taking what I can get where I can get seeing as how you don't want to be friends with me. me
Casey: Would you still trust a friend who betrayed you?
later answers Casey: Do you believe a friend's trust should be earned?
Be advised it will not go perfect. The other person probably has more experience in twisting the situation than you in untwisting it.
NO Hill for a swimmer was a sarcastic remark a coworker years ago would say when a problem without an appearant solution would arise. Since then I've become I believe the oldest beach lifeguard on the Gulf Coast so the name sticks. Swim in the gulf often though the Pacific or Indian Oceans probably has higher swells daily.
This technique is something to practice. You will run out of questions at first but will get better as time goes on. Basicly you are untwisting the situation a manipulator twists in order to get you to do their will. It also forces them to think in your terms.
Wish you well.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
