I must say, the situation you are facing is among the toughest one can face.
That is what I feel as well. It is not like she moved into an apartment with the children and had to manage on her own. She is already living with OM in his house.
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If you can save youself and start really living, MAYBE your wife will turn around.
Yes I agree, the children and I come first. Must sort out the financial side for everyone concerned.
I am losing the will to save the sitch after being respectful of my wife through all this and her just dropping that she has letters from the Attorney General stating they are coming to me for child support after she claimed medical insurance for her and the children and food stamps as a seperated wife.
She said that she would not go for divorce until I had money/regular income and could pay child support. I respected her for that but felt bad that in myself that I could not support the children.
I am looking for a job. I just wish this had not happened until I had one. Just a bad day for news I suppose and feel a bit down hearing it and do not want to be in contact with her after hearing her problems.
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I'm deeply moved and deeply sorry this is happening to you.
Thank you for your kind words. Sh*t happens in life and you have to rise above it. I am tired and have more immediate concerns regarding finances and being the best father for my children.
