an xh, his FF, Thanksgiving, MIL, and one psuedo-R

[Dom R]

i cannot believe you gave your ok for that invite.

Well, I don't actually think she'll be there. (Controlling husband.) If she does, well, I think this provides several opportunities for me. One...I will make sure I look more than nice. Two...xh will actually feel uncomfortable.

OR... he'll feel validated that he is "Just friends" with her, and that you now are "ok with it".

.... I think this is a disaster in the making. You need to be consistant. He's confused enough without you flipflopping...

Of course, she was supposed to go to DS's bday party, and wasn't there. I doubt she'll be there Thursday, either.

hope you're right.