Also, as far as the doing things and being nice, etc., my H ended up telling me he was doing the same thing -- helping more around the house, etc. trying to make things less stressful for me so that then I may feel I had more time & energy for him. Problem was, I had no idea this is what he was doing/why he was doing these things. He just became more angry & resentful.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
