I will reply later when I have time. Sounds a lot like me "BEFORE" w/o the religious stuff mixed in.

Real quick, either she's serious about the religious stuff & needs to know that (as far as I know and I'm Baptist), a lot of that is not against "religion" or she's using that as an excuse. Maybe she's just very self-conscious b/c of the way she was brought up thinking about men & sex (thinking this b/c of the "you're just a penis" comment) -- that was me. I had to force myself to be more adventurous and not so self-conscious/shy, etc. w/ my own H!! Then I realized I actually liked it b/c my H did!

Gary Chapman has a really good website (he's the author of the 5 Love Languages) and I get daily emails from that website. There was one week on sex and it sure sounded to me like God wants us to be sexual w/ our partner and enjoy it!! What religion are you?

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 11/19/07 09:17 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10