I noticed some of his framed art off the wall so I took down one I got him last xmas and put it also in the garage. ============================ why are you helping him move out? it's like saying you dont' want anything H related in your home, to get the heck out already-- it doesn't surprise me he took the wedding pict down. Same with the comments about Thanksgiving, I'm sure he was sarcastic when he asked you if you guys would get along. It is so easy to respond in the same way he's talking to you, but this is where you begin to do your 180;'s and unteach yourself harmful behaviors, if he is baiting you or pushing your buttons, dont' give in. Be the bigger person, be sincere and truthful, inwardly you do want to have a good dinner with your family right? then you let him know that despite what's going on you would like to enjoy a family dinner together.
If it would've been up to my H we would've been divorced by now, if I would've gone by his negative behavior, I wouldnt' have him back with me. Don't get dragged by his antagonistic and detrimental behavior.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
