I agree w/ you Cemar (wow) but I do have to interject that there are some of us Wives that are willing to JUST DO IT and learn how to get from Mom Mode to Lover Mode b/c our M means enough to us to learn/figure it out.

I would have to then say, just as we say on these Boards that "love" is a choice, so is choosing to figure out how to go from mom mode to lover mode. It's a CHOICE if you can't/won't do this.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10