Basically what is says from what I have read so far is that we need to put our marriages first and then the children will benefit from that. THe most common trait I see among LD women is that they for the most part can NOT do this. THeir are tons of women that get into MOM mode who find it hard if not impossible to get OUT of MOM mode. I would nominate this as the #1 problem in marriage today, women who can NOT move from Mom mode to Lover mode. And this has little to do with their men.
