Thanks again about2bedivorced. I really appreciate you chiming in. Right now, I'd like to drop the legal bomb on her, so she would have nothing else to do but worry about how to defend herself. I really can't stand divorce lawyers, though. The only thing more lowly is a debt collector, which I just got a letter from regarding my ex's medical bill. Somehow it now ended up in my name - go figure. I left her a voice mail about it on Saturday and still haven't heard anything back from her. This is so typical. I just need to hold my breath and count to 10 - over and over again.

I did find out that oldest daughter (D11) really laid into her about her relationship with OM. She has been much less than truthful to our kids about her relationship. Serves her right since she hasn't in the least tried to be discreet around the kids. I believe she has poisoned her relationship with our kids and it is going to take a lot of work to restore it. I've also been reading up on this site about the MLC. She definitely has it. Doesn't care what anyone thinks. Unbelievably selfish.

By the way, I ordered "The Tao of Steve" from Blockbuster. I saw "300" and once was enough. I liked it, but all the killing started to get a little old toward the end.

Thanks again,

P42 (Grasshopper)