Hi again ~ long time no see.

[RedHeadWife]

Zu, honestly, girl, I don't mean get all in your stuff, but every time you post all this stuff, it just seems to me that you truly aren't even trying to work on things. It seems to me that you get upset, even pick arguments w/ him over things that truly don't matter. I could be totally way off, but that's just what I'm seeing. I think I've said this to you before, but it seems like you two just go round & round in circles.

I have learned from my whole sitch that a marriage takes A LOT of work. I understand being a stay at home mom, BTDT, but you cannot EXPECT him to respond/react in certain ways just b/c that's what you want to hear, etc.

I started a book the other day called "His Needs Her Needs w/ Children" or something along those lines. You may want to check it out. Basically what is says from what I have read so far is that we need to put our marriages first and then the children will benefit from that.