After spending 2 weekends in a row w/o my kids, my W suddenly is having 2nd thoughts about 50/50 custody. She now says that she is not getting enough "quality time" with them. She has proposed the standard 1 night over the weekend and then 2 nights the following weekend which I will not accept.

So we are meeting tonight to work out a parenting plan but I am not sure how this will go since she is still so angry with me. Last night, I dropped off the kids 20 minutes later than expected and she was all over me for taking away "her time" with the kids.

She has acknowledged that she is very, very angry with me because of the situation. She also said that because this is D so she only focuses on the negatives that brought us here. Now it appears that she wants to have me accept minimal time with my kids and still get money to cover her expenses.

My W made it a point to be critical that I give her money(voluntarily) on Sundays on purpose so she has no money for gas and other expenses. Last time I checked, the money was for the support of my kids not her gas tank. I am hoping that this will not have to go to the L's but it may very well end up that way.

In her eyes, I do nothing right, I say nothing right, I am uncooperative, inconsiderate and less than a human being.

Her anger is so intense that it may not be possible to get an amicable agreement.


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007