Well, I would say your weekend was just as positive as mine! I think you did extremely well! And even thought you felt really down that last night, you still didn't let it show! I am proud of your progress. I can't tell you how many times I just wanted to walk over to H, hug him and kiss him and well, other things, but I didn't. I practiced that self-control, but it was H-A-R-D. Very. This is their journey to walk through, we can just be there to provide the support and love.
My H has thanked me several times for not giving up on him when he thinks I should because of the terrible things he feels he has done to me. He even said he was sorry for not being there for me all those years ago too! That in itself was a remarkable and empowering thing to hear.
As Jenny pointed out there were many many positives in the nights you had together. She is seeing the you she loved before and the new you you have become. You will still feel up and down a lot, but that is a sign of progress. Keep up the great work and keep smelling good and looking nice!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
