Glad to hear W is willing to start "talking" things out. Hope this opens the doors to communication (sorry can't type or spell to well these days).

My hasbend and I have limited communication to custody & finaances only. Have adamently refused a legal separation as that will work in his favor. Told him if thats what he wants lets just sell it all, split it 50/50 and let the chips fall where the may. He didn't like that answer as that is exactly what would happen in our case where I have worked and contributed to our household on par with him. Also with his new "executive" position and bonuses and big raises even though custody would be 50/50 he is probably looking at court ordered CS now.

Hope your W is more compliant. At least "hasbend"sort of figured out that he will not be walking away with everything as previously planned. I have officially retained an atty but haven't taken any action...waiting for the end of year and his big fat W-2...


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.