Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

[dh4320]

Ellie,
thank you for the reply. She has shut down communication with her family and tlaks to people who enable her or tell her that she is doing the right thing. Again she only talks to people who tell her what she wants to hear. One of my stipulations i will have in our court hearing on the 29th of this month is htat she gets a psych evaluation done before she can have visitation with the kids. 2 weeks ago she came home and forgot she left our 4 month old in the car for about 20 minutes. also she took her to the doctor last week for her 4 month shots and after they measured her for the growth chart she left the doctors, they had to call her and tell her my daughters shots had not been given yet. SHe has been keeping a journal lately and our neighbor said she drew some pictures in the journal that she does not remember even doing. She had a mentally abusive father and she lost her mom to breast cancer when she was only 9. I feel i am the only one who can save her from self destruction. So i have put my foot down and let her go, i hope she comes around but she is pretty stubborn. I always find the ones that need so much nurturing(dont think i spelt that right) oh well, i believe what i learned from DB and my first marriage has helped me with the way to handle this one.

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