MJ, Maybe it is time for me to push myself out of the comfort cycle and into the growth cycle ( iow, become more sexually assertive). Thanx ofr the kick. I am leaving tomorrow to visit my family in Florida for Thanksgiving; I was feeling kind of down as I will be once again, face to face with my father, and although I am so grateful for this, believe me, it's hard. But there is opportunity to have fun here--H and I ( and the kids) will be staying at a hotel, and the kids have a separate room. Elevator time with my H...wow...I never would have thought of it...I like the way you think!

Chrome, I feel terrible that I made you sad. Really, I am happy. I am just working in reality, that's all.

BlueJay, Please forgive this hijack, but it probably won't be the last time!