First off this is the first step onto the new roller coaster ride - try not to get on. Let H move out ASAP and set it up like a true separation - like prepping him for D. Do not file (unless you are ready) or agree to file - let him make the decision. Somehow with your H's history I do not think these decision will come to quickly. Let him have his so desired freedom and find out the OW is not as perfect as he believes. The LaLa land fantasy is about to be busted wide open and his perspective could change.
Take care of you and stop worrying about him. He's out of your sphere of control and you can only really worry about you. My H told me 6 times or so he TRULY wanted a D and we are still trying to piece us back together...you have put up with so much more BS - you are way stronger than you think!!
Now it's Olive's time!! I pity your H - he is one confused sad little puppy...
((((((LO)))))))
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
