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I'm really happy for you. It does seem that those who have succeeeded, like FH and Kidsaver (although he actually went through a divorce), have let go. TRULY let go and started to live for themselves while continuing to make permanent changes that were noticeable. Your W. always seems to be on the fence, not falling on one side or the other. Continue to be a good friend, and expect nothing in return. Whatver way it turns out, that will do nothing but help you. Hows the exercise going? \:\) Are you at 165lbs yet??:)