BTW, I am one of those people who are LD for security, love, commitment, etc., and HD for novelty and excitement.
I don't want to hijack this thread but I feel like I have to ask you why after all these years on this BB you do not simply straight-forwardly ask your H for more excitement and novelty in your sex life? What on God's green earth is keeping the two of you from having sex in an elevator?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
