Oh and I just wanted to add that my H was on AD and it took longer for him too. During the whole D sitch, that made me feel really anxious and always wondering if something was "wrong." It's normal, but then when you add the stressors like you 2 are having, it's seems a bigger deal than it really is.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10