Oh and I just wanted to add that my H was on AD and it took longer for him too. During the whole D sitch, that made me feel really anxious and always wondering if something was "wrong." It's normal, but then when you add the stressors like you 2 are having, it's seems a bigger deal than it really is.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10