Oh, forgot...xh made the odd comment yesterday that he admired my standing up to MIL. I found it kind of odd, because all I did was gently tell her that our daycare is not evil. And that xh and I really did know what was best for our son. I wasn't mean or rude, just politely disagreed with her.
Maybe that's what he meant... you stood up to her, yet in a respectful manner.... something that he has not found a way to do himself.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle