BJ: I just wanted to say that I truly hope you decide to go for some therapy on your own. Even if you decide to stay w/ your W and nothing changes on her part, I hate to see you so angry. You know, my H was at that point when he finally dropped the D bomb on me. He was so angry and just had so much pent up anger that he had held onto for so long.

I just wanted to say that I hate seeing someone so miserable! Do it for yourself and your children. Figure out how to be a happy, skinny man \:\) no matter what your W decides to do or not do.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10