Divorced, but still hoping for a miracle

[about2bdvorced]

(she communicates exclusively through the kids - which I think is really lame)

This has to stop. When one parent uses their children as a conduit for communication, then it's time to call in the artillery. I would tell your ex politely that this is unacceptable; it will damage the kids and make them feel like pawns. My ex was doing this and I had her hauled into my lawyer's office (w/her L) and I laid down the law.

Keep up the karma and keep flirting...good job, Grasshopper. I suggest several movies for your viewing pleasure..."The Tao of Steve" and "300"...the first one is funny, and teaches you that "we pursue that which retreats from us". The second one makes you want to work out night and day and kick other guy's asses.

P42, you are doing awesome. Keep up the good work and stay positive. You have friends here.