UGH!! H just got me by calling d12. When I got on the phone he asked if I would like to bring the kids to his sister's for thanksgiving. I told him I would love to drop the kids off but I didn't want anyone to be uncomfortable with me being there.
He then says he will just tell everyone that we aren't going to be there. He doesn't want the kids to be apart from me on the holiday. I assured him it was no big deal.
Then the semi-spew. He started in on how s15 hates his family and never calls them, blah blah blah, etc. etc. etc. I told him how dare he lay this on s15. If he is going to turn this all negatively on s15 then yes we will be there. I would never keep s15 from his family and he loves his family too much to be angry at them for h's actions.
We ended the conversation with me sleeping on it. God, H's thinking is so distorted. He just doesn't get it. He wants s15 back...well be the man he respects again and he will be back. COme back and take care of your family and stop running after a married ho and then s15 can look up to you. He won't with things like this.
Anyway, H made it seem like mil thinks s15 hates her. I don't believe this for a second. I actually called H's SIL in calif. after we got off the phone and ended up talking to his brother (oh....lets just throw gas on the fire....).
BIL has been so there for s15. He was going to see what he can do and what he thinks we should do for thanksgiving. If we don't show up H will look like poor poor H....his family wouldn't come for thanksgiving. They must hate us. If we do show up....awkward..
S15 is all for going by the way. He loves his uncles (h's bil's). They are in to sports and games like s15 and it would be great for him.
Don't know where this is going to lead me or what we will do for thanksgiving, but for now..... Still standing....but I feel like I am barefoot standing on glass
