Well, and obviously, "caring too much" is normal. She's your W and you don't want a D and you want your family back together!!

Also, you will probably think "how can you do this" a million times over! BTDT!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10