I had a friend tell me, when I was playing chess, that I am doing just that...trying to determine my next move. We cannot do this because it is simply their move. Honestly, I feel like we are hardly apart of the game. We are almost the observer. We need to listen and enjoy the time we have. Otherwise, we will get too disappointed with their next move.
A preacher of mine told me that I my puzzle of life had just been messed up and I was trying to put the pieces back together. I was thinking..yeah exactly..how do I do it. And he said, "you have it all wrong." I was thinking what are you talking about. The Lord will put it together. We have no control over this situation. Whether you believe or not...our spouses have all the control over their feelings and what they want to do. All we can do is be ready. Very easy to say...hard as heck to do. GL
