Sorry, girl, not that easy at all. Back during my D sitch, I got H to go to 2 counseling sessions, but he ended up saying that the books & C were a bunch of crap -- that his "lifelong partner should know these things" and that we should be able to just figure it out on our own, etc., etc.
You haven't given any of us the opportunity to comment on your entire sitch. Maybe you should start w/ that -- actually post your sitch & let us give you some advice on that.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
