I think I actually read your thread awhile back about meeting him at the coffee shop, etc. I'm glad that he's now wanting to work things out.

PLEASE READ THIS AND TAKE IT TO HEART: As great & wonderful as things seem right now w/ you two PLEASE, PLEASE keep reminding yourself to take it slow and put absolutely no pressure on him or it could end up backfiring and I would hate to see that.

I understand that you may feel down b/c he's not at home w/ you, but you need to turn it around and feel wonderful b/c at least you two are working on things, going on dates and seemingly in love again.

I would wait at least a few weeks and see how things are going before you ask if/when he's going to move home. I would go as far as to wait until he brings it up. You need to remind yourself that even though everything is going well, it's only been a week. PATIENCE, my friend, has ALWAYS been the name of the DB'ing game.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10