uhm?? shiny??? not sure???? I feel to much like I'm reading my own words here??? don't know if maybe I have two user names...a duel personality and am posting on two threads?????
oh shiny...I sooooo hear ya on all counts... but let's look at it this way...h is willing to go to c..and is open there...ya so he did have it for ow but keep in mind...that was new...would it have lasted??? or would he have fizzled out there too??
maybe you can get h to read the book and break the negative cycle...
