Penny, I wouldn't tell him how disappointed you are in him. It would just go in one ear and out the other. Right nothing is important to him except his own happiness. Not fair, but so true. I would love to come and give him a swift kick in the behind. All of our spouses need them!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon