Hey ST - Even in light of H's bad mood, I think it all played out well. I think what stick in my mind is that we have to change our reactions to our spouses behavior if we expect them to react differently toward us. I'm not sure what you did different (maybe you aren't sure either - LOL), but it ultimately worked. Whatever we do, we have to do out of love. Not anger. Ultimately, you done good.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs