hi kiki,
your message really gave me hope. My H has been having an A for at least a year. He moved back home for 7 weeks but left again on wed. because he still had his apt. and a phone there. I went over there and snooped and saw ow had been calling there 3x a day. and I kept asking him to unplug the phone but he said no and moved out again. My son and I are sad about this. this is the third time he moved back home but left again. He said ow who has had her own apt for 2 mos. is going back to her H. My H says he isnt seeing her anymore. I feel like he has no love for me anymore.
I know I have to get a job and stop bothering him and focus on my own life. today is my birthday and i called him before and said what did you whisper to my son on Fri. He said "what I got you for your birthday you freakin pain". I know he just wants me to leave him alone. but I find it difficult because I have to GAL.
He owns his own business and is really busy with that and doesnt think about us. He is a workaholic.

Last edited by rysmom; 11/18/07 08:46 PM.