The fat lady is warming up.... 2

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

I've already tried. I spent a good portion of June and July working on a list of assets, values, etc. and essentially made the offer described above (a few changes have been made in the intervening months), provided my rationale, and invited discussion without attorneys. I got nothing in return except silence, stonewalling, and excuses. By August I was done trying and counter-filed for D in September.

I remember reading your attempts. I would just hope that maybe you can reach her now. Is there a down side to trying again?

UPSIDE - An agreement, some R discussion, closure, reconciliation
DOWNSIDE - ?????????????????? I can't think of any.