Hey OldFool,

Thanks for thinking of me...I'm doing ok. My sis e-mailed me and asked what I was doing for Thanksgiving. She's still in Dallas. Her daughter had the baby on 12 Nov but she's staying until Thanksgiving.

I'm sorry to hear that your stubborn STBXW isn't budging. Of course, I had another name in mind but I'll be nice :-). It's hard to even imagine that we once had a good relationship with our ex's. I'm grateful that my ex settled for what he did. My therapist used to say that the outcome of our divorce plays a big part on how we heal. I will pray that the judge will see things your way.

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07