Quoting shinybear: Why do I want to get away more than ever?
Shiny
SB -- Can you get away? I know you said that H. was hurt by the need but I feel like you're going to pop! Even if it's just a night in a nearby hotel or B&B? It may sound nuts but H and I used to stay in town quite a bit (just 12 miles from our house). In fact, I was just looking for a cheap deal for maybe this weekend or next....If you don't think that H can stand it if you go alone could you make it with him?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Yeah Sage the urge to get away is growing stronger, if anything. I suppose I could get away to an inn near town, but we have only one car, so I'd be stuck there.
I love the spa idea, but just putting it all together, plus fitting it into the little time I have off...just seems overwhelming right now.
Not in the best of spirits. Touch starved for sure. Sigh. Did some pretty crazy journalling late last night, too steamy to post here!
I'll check on a few folks, then I MUST get off my duff and do a work out. Feeling a bit sluggish. Wondering if my thyroid might be off: weight gain and fatigue?
Ok, time to get up - think how happy you will feel after a work out!! How about a run? I am going tonight- cant wait! always feel great after. bike ride? Come on Shiny, skinny tastes better than chocolate. Ok you can smack me now! Shay
You're very right, I always feel better after a workout. Alas it's still way too cold here for a bike ride. I think I'll post til H gets home from an appointment, then I'll work out.
BTW, thank GOD I'm not really one for chocolate: my late night snack is more likely to be a tuna sandwhich or something. Weird eh?
Quoting shinybear: Yeah Sage the urge to get away is growing stronger, if anything. I suppose I could get away to an inn near town, but we have only one car, so I'd be stuck there.
Could rent a car for a weekend pretty cheap. Call Enterprise and they'll even pick you up...
Not a plug, just reiterating their commercial.
Where there is a will ... there is a way.
Sometimes DBing for yourself can be as much an effort as working on M...and can be a matter of determination.
Quote: BTW, thank GOD I'm not really one for chocolate: my late night snack is more likely to be a tuna sandwhich or something. Weird eh?
not really, one night h and I were craving some crab rangoon but we were both to lazy to go out and get it...so I grilled some hot dog buns and made tuna to put in them...yummmmmy!!! actually h said it was better than crab rangoon!!
Heck Yeah birth day girl you need to get out for some much needed you time. Rent a car and go to that spa you were thinking about. Just get up off your can and do it, stop talking about it. Also make sure you are working out to get rid of that stress you have right now. Just think how good you feel after doing a get cardio set. Damn I may go for another run tonight.
Im trying to get out this weekend and do some snow boarding before I head back to the states. Hope I can get away I know I need some me time.
Well hope your week is being good to you and I will check up on ya later.
Go go go! Take some time for yourself. You have been put through a lot and definitely deserve some down time. CJ will just have to understand that this isn't about him or the M, it is about taking care of yourself! If you are burned out, you cannot think straight and run the risk of making mistakes while trying to work on the M. Just don't do what my W did!
You've earned it. 