Does anyone else have this problem?

[theotherhalf]

angel,

this really isn't about you and you did not cause this. It is something inside your H. Something went totally wrong with him. It had nothing to do with your M or you.

It is something that he will have to work out for himself and there is really NOTHING you can do.

The fixing what went wrong with your M part comes in to play that if your H decides to return to you and your M, you have to be prepared. It is a long road home and you have to make your part in that strong, and have yourself prepared to get through it. This is just the opportune to time to better yourself. To be a better half of the marriage.