Long road Time now to bring OM into the Picture

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Thanks lwb, She seems to have a quick answer for everything I say she is quick like that and I am not so much. If I told her we are still leagally married she would say that is only because we can't sell the house right now (Sometimes I don't think this is completely true). No I don't think it is ok, but in her mind she has moved on.

I want to say something to the effect that I know you spent the weekend with OM. I am upset that you could put this effort into someone else but no us and our family. She puts all this effort into looking good and flirting I would like to know why you never did that with me. I don't know what I expect to get out of this, but if nothing else I want her to know that I am not stupid and I know what she is doing.